FAQ's
Wedding FAQ's
1. HOW SOON BEFORE OUR WEDDING SHOULD WE COME IN TO SELIX TO RESERVE OUR FORMALWEAR AND SHOULD WE PRE-REGISTER?
It’s never too soon to register your wedding and place your names into our wedding registry database... It is preferred that you pre register online at our website or visit the nearest Selix to set an appointment. Typically speaking most brides and grooms will begin the selection process 6-9 months in advance of their wedding.
2. SHOULD WE SET AN APPOINTMENT AND WHAT SHOULD WE BRING?
Yes, set an appointment. This way a formalwear consultant can set aside dedicated time to spend with the bride and groom to walk them through the selection process. It is always helpful when the Bride and Groom bring their color swatches (gown/dress/accent or theme colors). Please be prepared with the names of the men who will be wearing formalwear. Our dedicated staff will personalize the look of your wedding so that the men will look and feel great and you’ll have photography and memories to cherish for a lifetime.
3. HOW SOON BEFORE THE WEDDING SHOULD THE MEN PLACE THEIR ORDERS?
A good rule of thumb is that 6-8 weeks prior to the wedding all the men should have been measured and entered into our reservation system. That being said Selix maintains its entire inventory locally. This means we have the capability to accommodate next day and same day orders for any last men that would like to be included in the wedding.
4. CAN THE MEN BE FITTED AT ANY SELIX STORE AND HOW DO YOU HANDLE THE MEN THAT DO NOT LIVE LOCALLY?
This is a simple issue to address. The men may visit any Selix location for their fittings. They do not have to go to the store where the wedding was registered. For those men that do not live in the greater San Francisco area we ask that they visit their local tux shop, men’s store or tailor to obtain a complimentary fitting. Once this is done they may email, phone or fax their sizes to Selix.
5. DOES EVERYONE HAVE TO TRY ON THEIR OUTFITS WHEN THEY PICK UP AND WHAT IF THEY NEED SIZE CHANGES?
Selix understands how important it is that all the men look and feel great. We strongly encourage that every customer be fitted by one of our trained formalwear professionals in our store to ensure a great fit. We own, operate and house our inventory locally so we have the ability to make adjustments as needed. We will schedule your final fitting 1-2 days prior to your event. In most cases our trained staff can make the adjustments or exchanges on the spot otherwise we’ll have the items delivered the following day.
6. WHAT STYLES SHOULD WE CONSIDER FOR THE MEN AND HOW CAN WE COORDINATE THE BRIDESMAIDS DRESSES WITH THE GROOMSMEN ATTIRE?
Selix trained formalwear consultants can be very helpful in coordinating the look of your wedding whether it be traditional or contemporary. The season and time of day may also play a part in coordinating the look for your wedding. The important thing to remember is that the Groom should be distinct in some manner and compliment the Bridal gown. Many Brides consider that the groomsmen compliment the colors of the bridesmaid’s gowns. You may use vest/tie and pocket square combinations when coordinating with your color theme.
7. WHAT SIZES DOES SELIX CARRY?
Selix is one of the largest formalwear companies on the West coast. We have 13 store locations and over 400 independent dealers. We have an extensive inventory to select from including basic to designer styles. We can accommodate most any size (boys 3 to men’s 70 long) and body build. Please visit our website to see the vast array of tux styles and accessories that Selix carries.
8. WHEN CAN OUR WEDDING PARTY PICK UP THEIR TUXEDOS AND WHEN ARE THEY DUE TO BE RETURNED?
The tuxedo rentals are scheduled for final fittings 2 days prior to your wedding. The garments are due to be returned the following day of the wedding (except closed Holidays). Selix is open 7 days a week and it’s important that the garments are returned promptly so we may process them for our next customers.
9. CAN THE MEN BE FITTED AT ONE LOCATION AND DROP OFF AT A DIFFERENT STORE?
The men may visit any Selix location that is convenient to them for their fitting, pickup and return. Our unique computer system allows us to access a wedding registration from any of our Selix locations. This way it will make it most convenient for all the men in the wedding party.
10. WHO SHOULD WE CONSIDER TO WEAR FORMALWEAR IN OUR WEDDING PARTY?
Most typically the following men should be dressed in formalwear for the formal photography; Groom, Best Man, Groomsmen, Ushers/Attendants, Ring bearer, Fathers, Grandfathers and any other special friends of the families such as readers or singers. Remember this is one of the few occasions in your life where you can capture a portrait of a generational photo.
11. WHAT ARE SELIX PRICES?
The tuxedo rental prices at Selix begin at $49.95. Selix carries a large selection from basics to designers and can accommodate every budget. Pricing varies according to the style and accessory selection you choose.
12. ARE THEIR DISCOUNTS FOR THE GROOM AND OTHER MEMBERS OF THE WEEDDING PARTY?
Selix believes in providing quality with value for all of our customers. Through the course of the year our wedding specials vary. It’s best contact a Selix location or visits our website for the most current promotions. Be assured that we pride ourselves on registering every wedding at Selix. We will not be undersold therefore we’ll match or beat any legitimate competitors offer on comparable garments.
1. HOW SOON BEFORE OUR WEDDING SHOULD WE COME IN TO SELIX TO RESERVE OUR FORMALWEAR AND SHOULD WE PRE-REGISTER?
13. WHY SHOULD PEOPLE WEAR FORMALWEAR?
Tuxedos make your events extra special. Tuxedos are significantly distinct from dress suits. Tuxedos are enhanced with luxurious satin on the lapels, pockets, buttons and the pant leg. A person should wear tuxedos for very special events such as Weddings, Anniversaries, Fundraisers, dances, and a range of other “Black Tie Affairs”. There is no better way to create a memory of a lifetime than dressed in a tuxedo. The men will take on an aura of sophistication, confidence and look great for their special event.
Prom FAQ's
1. How long before my Prom do I need to rent a tuxedo from Selix Formalwear?
Selix Formalwear carries an awesome number of different styles and sizes to fit you exactly in the tuxedo that you want for your dance. That said, Selix finds that the most popular styles can often run out in certain sizes on the busiest weekends. So we suggest that you come in and rent your tuxedo as soon as you know that you are attending your dance.
2. What is the hottest style this year that will make me look good for my prom?
The new Calvin Klein 2-Button Peak is “HOT!” This year Selix Formalwear has also added the Black-on-black Pin-striped Eternity which is a guaranteed “sell-out.” The White “SEVEN Tuxedo” by After Six is going to be hot for those wanting to stand out in the crowd. And of course our other assortment of WHITE TUXEDOES are always popular too.
3. My date has not gotten her dress yet. Should I wait until she gets it before I come in to rent my tuxedo?
No. Come right in! At Selix Formalwear, we know that your date has the difficult task of finding a dress that she likes both in color and in fit. Some girls will buy 3 or 4 dresses and decide which one to wear on the day of the dance. Regardless, Selix can help you select styles and colors that will work with almost any color your date wears. And we will make last minute changes when possible to accommodate those emergency dress changes.
4. How much will it cost me to rent a tuxedo? Do I have to pay it all up front?
Selix Formalwear offers the largest formalwear inventory in Northern California, so it makes sense that we also offer a range of different prices. With a selection of styles at $49.95 including coat, pant, shirt, bowtie, cummerbund and jewelry, Selix Formalwear offers superior formalwear at an incredible value. And don’t worry about paying it all at once. Selix Formalwear requires only a $20.00 down payment with the final payment due when you pick-up your tuxedo.
5. My date has an unusually colored dress and she wants my tuxedo to match what she’s wearing. What do I do?
Selix Formalwear carries more than 100 different colors and styles in vests and cummerbunds. Each year we consult different dress manufacturers in an effort to make sure we always have the latest colors. If your date is having trouble finding a match, then come to Selix Formalwear.
6. I am going to several proms this season. Can I get a discount if I rent more than once from Selix Formalwear? Or should I just buy a tuxedo?
Selix Formalwear understands that the total cost for a dance or prom can get expensive. And multiply that two, three or four times and a guy can find himself out of cash really quick. That said, Selix Formalwear will work with you to help find the best price points for one or more of your dances. And with prices starting at $49.95, Selix offers superior formalwear at an excellent value! Purchasing a tuxedo can be a smart alternative if your body is no longer growing. For a little more money up front, you can own a tuxedo that can give you many years of service. See our PURCHASE page for more information.
7. I want to go all out and get a hat, cane, gloves and scarf. Are these things that I can get from Selix Formalwear?
Selix Formalwear offers all of these items and many more as well. Most of these items we sell so that you can keep them once the dance is over.
8. Does Selix Formalwear rent non-pleated pants?
Yes, we rent flat-front pants to give you the latest style in trouser fashion.
9. When can I pick-up my tuxedo? Do I have to try it on when I pick it up?
Selix Formalwear will inform you of your pick-up date and time at the time that you rent your formalwear. Your rental receipt will also contain this information in case you are unsure. We do request that you try on your rental on the pick –up date. This gives us the chances to show you how to adjust the pants, vest, bowtie (or necktie) and jewelry. It also gives us the opportunity to arrange for any additional changes or adjustments that may be needed.
10. How soon do I have to return my tuxedo after the dance?
Your tuxedo rental is due the next business day that your Selix Formalwear location is open. Depending on the day of the dance, your tuxedo may be due back Saturday, Sunday or Monday. It is very important that you return your tuxedo on time. Selix Formalwear is able to provide your tuxedo on a timely basis because the person that rented it before you returned it on time. You will also avoid late fees if you return it on time.
11. Can someone else return my tuxedo after the dance?
Yes. Selix Formalwear asks that you make sure that all items are included so that the person returning it for you will not have any hassles. If you are missing an item, then please contact the Selix Formalwear location that you rented from and let them know where the item is. If the item(s) is lost, then full payment is due for the missing item(s)on the same date that the tuxedo is due to be returned to Selix Formalwear.
12. I’ve heard about other students getting their tuxedo rental free when they bring in their friends. How can I qualify to do this?
Contact the Store Manager of the nearest Selix Formalwear store to you to find out if you can participate in our “Student Representative Program.” To find the Selix Formalwear location to you, call (800) 55-TUXEDO. Or fill out our “Get Your Prom Tux Free” webpage and wait for one of our Selix Formalwear Store Managers to contact you. Participation in this program is limited and can not be confirmed without individual Store Manager approval.
13. If I rented a tuxedo rental last year from Selix Formalwear, will Selix still have my measurements?
Selix Formalwear maintains your sizes in our file for 1-2 years. We do suggest that you get re-measured if you are under 21 years of age and if the last time you rented was more than 3 months past.
Formal Event Etiquette FAQ's
Formalwear etiquette varies in different parts of the country and at different times of the year. Some areas are more fashion oriented while other areas tend to be more traditional in style. For some general guidlines and definitions click the link below. These definitions are meant in most cases to guide you, but not to be the final word by any means. For complete information visit your nearest Selix Formalwear or call (800) SELIX-TUX to find out more specific information.
1. What do I wear for an event when the invitation requests “White Tie” attire?
Congratulations! You have been invited to a very important event. You will wear black tails (also known as black full dress) in a peak, shawl or notch style of lapel with traditional black tuxedo pants. Your shirt, bowtie and vest should be white pique fabric (as a last resort other fabrics can be substituted if white pique is not available) and your studs and cufflinks will both be white. Black patent leather lace-up shoes are traditional and under no circumstances is a casual black shoe appropriate. You may also be required to wear white gloves, top hat and/or cane depending upon what else the invitation might request.
2. What do I wear for an event when the invitation requests “Black Tie” attire?
You are invited to wear a tuxedo or white dinner jacket depending upon the formality of the group or occasion. If the occasion is a “Black Tie” Mardi Gras event, you are probably welcome to make the tuxedo colorful and unusual. On the other hand, if the dinner will be a “Black Tie” retirement dinner for an executive in your company, then you probably would be more appropriate in a classic black tuxedo with matching black accessories. If you are in doubt, stay with the classic black look. You can’t loose because everyone looks great in a tuxedo. If you have questions, call the nearest Selix Formalwear store at (800) SELIX-TUX and we will help you figure out what will best serve your occasion.
3. What do I wear for an event when the invitation requests “Black Tie Optional” or “Black Tie Invited” attire?
“Black Tie Optional” is a very popular kind of formal event. What this really means is: “we would like you to wear a tuxedo, but if you are not able to wear one, then you may attend by wearing a suit.” We suggest you wear a tuxedo because it is the intention of the hosts to make the event as formal as possible. And dressing more formal may make your evening more enjoyable knowing that you are dressing as your hosts would desire you to. If you have further questions, then call the nearest Selix Formalwear store at (800) SELIX-TUX and we will help you figure out what will best serve your occasion.
4. What do I wear for an event when the invitation requests “Formal Attire”?
This is usually another way of stating that this event requires that you wear a tuxedo. You would follow the same instructions as if the event reads “Black Tie.” However, if you have questions or this does not fit with your image of what the hosts would like you to wear, then please contact them and get clear instructions on what they are asking. It is much better to find out a head of time what kind of dress the hosts are expecting than to show up and be embarrassed because you did not ask.
5. What do I wear for an event when the invitation requests “Semi-Formal Attire”?
